Bagaimana hendak memikat seorang lelaki?

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  1. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    Halo,

    Bagaimana hendak memikat sesorang lelaki?

    It is so hard to flirt with this guy. Can't he see me?
    Am I not that pretty? - hmm secara jujur I am pretty. Bukan narcissistic, I just have that confidence that I am pretty.

    He is kinda guy yang pendiam. Boleh tahan alim nya, sembahyang tidak pernah tinggal. He is not that tall, also not that short. He is fair, I could say. Broken hearted with one lady who was actually his first love, the reason why he could not trust woman again - SAD but truth, this is why its hard to get this guy's heart. I've been trying like flirting, he response to it which I think a positive sign. But I need him to make another move. Tidak mungkin, aku terus saja yang memulakan.

    I know sabar is the key. <3
     
  2. Kalajengking

    Kalajengking Active Member

    Sepertinya kamu juga harus sabar menhadapi diri kamu sendiri.

    Hal yang wajar jika kamu masih 'kaget' dan masih sulit memahami kenyataan yg tidak sesuai dengan pemahaman kamu sebelumnya.

    Sebisa mungkin hindari pemikiran2 'self centre',
    cobalah untuk lebih bisa menyimak dan jadi pendengar yang baik.

    CMIIW
     
  3. kuro

    kuro Active Member

    biasa orang alim tidak pacaran , gimana kalo kamu jadi alim juga ?
     
  4. Ardanz08

    Ardanz08 New Member

    pretty is not what hes wanted.

    mungkin dia menginnginkan hal lain yg nggak kmu ketahui
     
  5. King

    King Active Member

    Yang pertama kamu haruslah seorang Wanita :D hehehe
    Kamu bilang kan dia punya pengalaman buruk sama cinta pertamanya
    Coba pastiin dia masih takut wanita atau engga
    Coba kalo ngobrol tatap matanya
    Kali dia jadi gugup mungkin dia masih takut deketin wanita,
    Siapa tau dia Kayak gue skrg, kalo di tatap matanya sama wanita ga berani natap balik dan gugup, karena punya pengalaman buruk soal wanita

    Ini dari pengalaman pribadi aja jadi blum tentu benar
     
  6. Astra Jingga

    Astra Jingga Active Member

    Sad But True.... Oh, that's Metallica :D

    Anyway, loosing first love-especially in a 'not so nice' way is hard, believe me I know. But I believe it doesn't mean he's un-approachable (people change, btw, and deep inside, sooner or later he'll know & admit he needs a 'friend'). But in this case, any form of frontal approach must be avoided at all costs or you'll loose him. You're right; you must be sabar. One thing you can do, for example; is to try to put yourself in a situation where you and him must be together for a period of time (if possible), hence gives you the time you need to at least to try to get loser to him.

    Or if that's so impossible anyway, just try to be always on his sight at the very least. Try to always be there to help him, or have a chat or two with him... Be his friend as best as you can, be strong, and be... sabar. Good luck.
     
  7. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    Bad news, yeah I am such a self centre, I need to change that. i'll take note on your advised. Thanks.
     
  8. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    Like I said, boleh tahan alim. hahaha. I am trying to be that lady. Insha Allah, one day.. istiqomah.
     
  9. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    I think so. But still being pretty is wajib for perempuan. :p
     
  10. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    Ofcourse harus wanita. I am a woman, tulen. haha
    Nope I don't think so, I've tried this, dia tatap mata aku balik and said that I have big eyes. (p/s, aku flirted, aku winked kearah dia)

    He is not afraid of wanita, he just could not trust woman.
     
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  11. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    Frontal approach? I don't get this. Do you mean directly flirting?
    I am trying to get closer to him which I think its good vibe.
    However, can I provoke him? By saying a good things about other men? My intention is to know if he is jealous.
     

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