Against nepotism but stuck with it.

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  1. leo_kambing

    leo_kambing Member

    Hello there. Let me just straight away curhat
    Okay, I am really against nepotism but I am stuck with it.
    My nepotism is office romance. I just started a love relationship with this guy. He is my office mate.
    At first, it was sweet that we can see each other and talk everyday but now It seems opposite.
    I Do not want our colleagues to know our relationship. It is too awkward. Aku tuh mahunya seperti biasa saja, no need for you to show that we are together. But he seems like to be more clingy than before and personally I kinda annoyed with it. Yes, we are together, I love him. This news it is more than enough just to let only family knows. Tidak perlu satu Dunia.
    And also, since I am really against nepotism, I really hope/wish either of us can get other job. For me, I am uncomfortable working with the one I love but I couldn't stop jodoh. Nevertheless,Conflict will arise sooner or later. It is better to avoid than to cure.

    How should I resolve this? Is it true that Lelaki mulai menunjukkan sikap possessive once in a relationship?

    Thanks for reading. Any comment, diterima dengan hati yang senang.
     
  2. Astra Jingga

    Astra Jingga Active Member

    Lelaki mulai menunjukkan sikap possessive once in a relationship...? Not always, unless you're generalizing us all :emoji_grin:

    Mudah-mudah sulit sebetulnya, sis, that'd be depended on what type of person he is, dan itu sudah berkaitan dengan sifat dan sikap.

    But I wish you good luck with him:emoji_slight_smile:
     
  3. Kalajengking

    Kalajengking Well-Known Member

    Coba dibahas/omongin ama dia, ngga perlu terlalu serius... bisa sedikit dibawa konyol atau seru2an, misalnya - anggep aja kalian pasangan selingkuh - yg harus sembunyi2 atau saling menutupi... kalian hanya sedikit menyelingkuhi "sistem" dan mungkin sedikit idealisme pribadi.
    Semoga aman dan nyaman, semoga ada cara yg lebih baik.
     

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